Sarah Tolmie - Life & Love Trainings
Guiding You Home to Love, Connection & Meaning
Sarah Tolmie is a holistic celebrant, marriage therapist, relationship coach, bespoke funeral director, and end-of-life consultant. Her life’s work is rooted in one unshakable truth: love—at every stage of life—is the most sacred force we have.
As a Marriage Therapist and Relationship & Emotional Wellbeing Coach, Sarah brings both heart and wisdom to those seeking deeper connection. She walks beside individuals, couples, families, and communities—teaching, mentoring, and empowering them to grow into intimacy, authenticity, and conscious love.
Her signature trainings, Creating a Miracle Marriage and How Do You Feel, are gentle yet powerful invitations to expand emotional literacy, build relationship resilience, and nurture well-being. These courses are for anyone who wants to live—and love—with more presence, purpose, and grace.
In her sacred work around death, dying, and grief, Sarah offers not just services, but soulful companionship. As a bespoke funeral director and holistic death care practitioner, she brings compassion, clarity, and reverence to families navigating life’s most tender thresholds.
Through her video series, Landscapes of Life, Love & Loss, Sarah invites you into meaningful conversations—spaces where grief is held with grace, where stories are honored, and where healing begins through connection.
This is life and love work. It is soulful, sacred, and deeply human. And Sarah is here to walk it with you.
Creating a Miracle Marriage
Grow a love that lasts—deepening, evolving, and thriving together.
An online course for couples ready the Thrive Together in Love
This course is for couples who want more than just staying together—they want to grow together. Creating a Miracle Marriage offers a heartfelt and practical journey into lasting love, intimacy, and wellbeing within Marriage and Committed Union.
Led personally by Sarah Tolmie, a seasoned relationship coach and therapist, this course combines deep emotional wisdom with down-to-earth tools. Through intimate video tutorials, Sarah gently guides you to reconnect, reimagine, and rekindle the sacred bond between you.
These teachings are drawn from Sarah’s lived and proven Miracle Marriage method, beautifully expressed in her Miracle Marriage Manifesto eBook and grounded in her professional training with the Gottman Institute.
Whether you're newly committed or decades into your partnership, this course invites you to co-create a relationship that evolves with heart, depth, and conscious love.
Landscapes of Life & Love & Loss
Traversing the sacred pathways of dying, death and grief
FREE Course for anyone and everyone - because these conversations belong to all of us.
In this gentle and insightful video series, Sarah Tolmie invites you into the tender terrain of dying, death, and grief. With compassion, clarity, and warmth, she opens the door to conversations that are often avoided—but deeply needed.
Across five heartfelt videos, Sarah explores:
- How we think and feel about death
- How to prepare practically and emotionally
- What to expect in the early shock of loss
- How to navigate the many landscapes of grief
- Ways to support ourselves and others through sorrow
- And how to gently return to life, meaning, and love after loss
With each step, Sarah offers not just guidance, but grace—drawing from her years of experience as a funeral celebrant, end-of-life consultant, and companion through grief.
The course also includes a downloadable free handbook, designed to help you begin meaningful conversations with your loved ones, gently and confidently.
How do you feel?
Using the intelligence of our emotions to heal and be whole.
Online Coursefor anyone ready to feel more deeply - and more freely
Emotions are not problems to be solved—they are messengers to be understood. In How Do You Feel?, Sarah Tolmie offers a soulful and practical guide to reconnecting with your emotional self, transforming the way you relate to your feelings and, in turn, to your life.
This course lays a compassionate foundation for understanding how emotions move through us—what they’re here to teach, and how we can respond with presence, rather than react in pain.
You’ll learn:
- The nature, purpose, and intelligence of emotions
- How to become fluent in the language of feeling
- Practical skills from Sarah’s Emotions Essentials Toolkit
- How to build emotional resilience and self-awareness
- Ways to gently shift from overwhelm to inner steadiness
Sarah also takes you on a deep dive into 12 Primary Emotions, exploring the unique role each plays in our inner world—and how to work with them skillfully and compassionately.
Whether you're navigating emotional overwhelm or simply want to deepen your relationship with yourself, this course offers a roadmap to feeling whole, grounded, and empowered through your emotional truth.
All Courses, Coaching & Bundles
There are a few ways you can engage with Sarah on the Teachable to experience her courses
You can buy a course as a standalone product.
Or, you can buy a course bundled with a Zoom coaching call with Sarah.
Or you can get a further discount buying both courses in a bundle.
And, you can reach out direct and have a Zoom coaching call with Sarah.
Sarah’s Life & Love
Real. Sacred. Joyful. Human.
Sarah Tolmie brings soul, heart, and a little bit of sparkle to everything she touches in the realms of Life & Love. She is a holistic celebrant, marriage therapist, relationship and emotional wellbeing coach, end-of-life consultant, and bespoke funeral director—all paths rooted in her devotion to helping people navigate the full arc of human experience: from falling in love to saying goodbye, and everything tender in between.
Long before earning a Master’s in Communication Management and building a successful corporate career, Sarah’s first love was understanding people. With a degree in Social Anthropology and Psychology, her passion for human connection, ritual, and emotional wellness was sparked early—and never left.
In 2005, she answered a deeper calling. Stepping away from the corporate world, Sarah returned to the sacred work of ceremony, storytelling, and soulful service. Since then, she’s been walking alongside individuals, couples, and families as they navigate the emotional, relational, practical, and spiritual moments that shape a life: love, marriage, parenthood, loss, grief, healing, and everything in between.
These days, Sarah lives beachside on the NSW Central Coast, where she proudly takes “the slow and scenic route” through life. She describes her adventures in life and love as a series of close encounters—with joy and sorrow, love and loss, birth and death, transformation and truth.
Her own wellbeing is a patchwork of daily rituals: meditation, prayer, barefoot beach walks, heart-lifting friendships, and soul-deep chats with her mum—her mentor, muse, and hero. She joyfully identifies as an “undomestic goddess,” and holds fast to the belief that a little mischief (and good Champagne) goes a long way.
Sarah is a joyful dabbler: community choir enthusiast, surf lifesaver, ocean swimmer, activist, bushwalker, hammock-dwelling meditation queen, and occasional yoga cheat. She’s known to burst into spontaneous laughter, dancing, or singing—sometimes all three at once.
Married to the love of her life, Andrew, for 28 years, Sarah believes in renewing vows and rewriting love stories. (They’ve married each other every 7 years - five times - and counting.) Together, they’ve raised two wonderful, man-sized sons—Finn and Rory—and share their home and hearts with their beloved fur-child, Harvey-dog.
In all she does, Sarah brings a spirit that is playful and profound, grounded and gracious—helping others find meaning, magic, and deep connection in every season of life and love.
"Sarah was able to guide us in the right direction. Working with Sarah has been an emotional roller coaster that we had to ride as a couple to live our best life together and we couldn’t be happier. She has given us the ability to see our relationship as a living organism that requires attention and I am so grateful. Sarah offers such a warm and understanding atmosphere conducive to sharing and divulging our inner most fears and issues. I know the tools she have given us will be used daily and will only continue to improve our relationship.."
- Lisa and Cameron
